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Be generous to your family before helping others. For example, She spends hours and hours on volunteer work and neglects the children, forgetting that charity begins at home. This proverb was first recorded in English, in slightly different form, in John Wycliffe's Of Prelates (c. 1380): "Charity should begin at himself."
American Heritage Idioms
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Phrase(s): Charity begins at home.
Prov. You should take care of family and people close to you before you worry about helping others. • I don’t think our church should worry so much about a foreign relief fund when there are people in need right here in our city. Charity begins at home. • If you really want to make the world a better place, start by being polite to your sister. Charity begins at home.
McGrawhill's American Idioms And Phrasal Verbs